In the past 10 days, Chloe and I have had 2 decent nights of sleep. On the bad nights, she sleeps 1-3 hours. That is just insufficient zzzz's. It was once said to me that sleep is like another food group: you need it to survive. Boy, is that the truth! We're both barely functioning, let alone getting anything extra done (or laundry, or cleaning for that matter)!
Needless to say, I'm grateful we were able to meet with a sleep disorders specialist today. I'm desperate. I need all the input and suggestions I can get to resolve this issue. Chloe's lack of sleep is starting to control our lives, and we've just got to regain control.
So here's the long and short of it. He went over a 21-page report that broke down, analyzed, and made recommendations according to Chloe's sleep study. I'll try to explain it (as much as I understand it, that is)....
Chloe has sleep apnea. This appears to be due to a mild obstruction. They don't believe that the obstruction is her tonsils/adenoids, and have ruled out a tonsilectomy for now. They believe the obstruction is caused by her poor swallowing abilities, and she actually chokes on the secretions that build up in the back of her throat.
It is believed that she has reflux. Not necessarily acid reflux, but just regular reflux. Basically, because her body has low tone, all of her muscles function poorly, including her stomach and intestinal muscles. Therefore, pressure builds up when the body doesn't push things down. The pressure has to go somewhere, so it comes up. This can cause a lot of discomfort and pressure in her throat area, and will cause her to wake up.
They believe Chloe has severe anxiety. The primary indicator of her anxiety is the fact that she grinds her teeth throughout the night. Today I learned that tooth grinding is actually a primary indicator of underlying anxiety, especially for children who aren't able to communicate. They feel fear/anxiety, don't know how to express it, sometimes try to repress it, but the anxiety causes tension to build in the facial muscles, and they release that pressure by grinding their teeth.
There is also a theory that because Chloe is 2, and seems to be progressing along a somewhat normal cognitive pattern, they believe there is possibly some sort of 'imagination' going on when she wakes up during normal sleeping cycles. It's possible her imagination gets going, as normal 2-year-old imaginations do, causing her to cry. Since she's non-communicative, it's that much more difficult to soothe her because I don't know what the fear is.
It also stands to reason that since Chloe spends a great majority of the day being held, then falls asleep being held, that when she wakes up all by herself and isn't being held, then add on top of that her inability to move/control her body and her inability to speak, that she will experience anxiety.
Okay, so three issues. Three solutions.
To help with the obstructive sleep apnea, we are going to reduce salivations with Sal-Tropine. I'm not a fan of just adding prescriptions every time we turn around. I've actually been looking into a lot of natural remedies, and hoping to use fewer prescriptions. But like I said, we're desperate, so I'm willing to try this for at least awhile.
To deal with the reflux issues, we are going to do two studies: pH probe & impedance probe. Each test is a 24-hour evaluation of activity in the esophagus. One monitors the pH, and the other monitors subtle changes (muscle movement & air flow) in the esophagus. Our neurologist is trying to get the pH probe scheduled in two weeks. We have to see a GI specialist to get a referral for the impedance probe. These studies will help determine how severe the reflux is, and recommendations will be made accordingly. My understanding is that the typical response to severe reflux is placement of a nissin.
To deal with Chloe's anxiety, we're going to tweak her routines and try a new seizure medication, Klonopin. We need to try to change her expectations about nighttime and reactions to not being held, bedtime and sleep. We're going to see a behavioral specialist for some help with that. Basically, we've got to get her to start falling asleep by herself, and to learn that she is okay by herself in her bed. We're also going to confer with her Rehab & Neuro specialists about switching her seizure medication from Topamax to Klonopin. Klonopin helps control seizures, but also has some sedative properties as well as aids with anxiety. Chloe is currently on Seroquel as well, which is an anti-psychotic medication, and Klonopin may be able to replace that, which would make me happy. My research of Seroquel makes me want to scream, but when Chloe doesn't take it, believe it or not, our nighttime is about ten times worse.
So that's that. Pretty boring info, but it's easier for me to type things on here, than to explain them to the 200 people who want the full scoop. Maybe I should read this post to Chloe.... that should help her sleep for sure! I almost fell asleep just writing it! ;O)
So to end on a lighter note, here are a couple pictures we took of Chloe tonight. After our little family date, we stopped at Sportsman's Warehouse so Oby could look at some guns, even though he doesn't hunt. I dunno. Anyway, Chloe and I entertained ourselves by trying on different hats. There are surprisingly a large number of different and funny hats in this type of store. I didn't take any pix of all the hats I tried on to make Chloe laugh, but I'm sure you can only imagine. Here are the pix of Chloe.
First up, she's in a camo ball cap with lace along the top of the rim. It has a picture of a deer and says 'lil deer' in pink. Cute:
And here she is in a fox cap:
I'm really living up to the TMI title tonight. Sorry!
8 comments:
Wow! you are going through alot... I hope you work through all of this and get it figured out. Life is not good without sleep. I'll keep you guys in my prayers.
Oh man, Tara, I'm so sorry about all the sleep problems you guys are still having to deal with. I really hope that this new stuff will help you all out.
I take kolonopin for anxiety, I didn't know it was an seizure med as well, but it helps me with my anxiety perhaps it will help Chlole as well.
Well, I thought your post was fascinating. Maybe it's because I haven't had a decent night's sleep in about a week or maybe because Millie is sick, but I definitely have some empathy for you!
Sounds like you still have some experimenting to conclude before your nights will be completely restful again, but you've got to be on the right track now. Good luck with everything. I hope you all get to sleep again!!
Josh always has to stop and look at guns too. Always. I have yet to find fun hats to try on. I'll look harder next time.
I did not find one thing about that boring. I am glad you posted it so I could get the scoop. I understand doing it this way instead of explaining it 200 times.
Poor little Chloe. I can't stand that she has to go through all of this stuff.
Oh, I just wanted to tell you yesterday, if Tay had left her alone she would have probably fell asleep laying on the family room floor. Chloe was drifting off and aunt Tay Tay had to pick her up and put her on the couch and then cover her up w/ a blankie, by then Chloe was wide awake.
Chloe was looking at Tay like what are you doing, I'm not going to go to sleep now.
I hope it all works so y'all can get some good sleep!
That's a really good way to explain detailed medical information. Not boring. And she looks super cute in her hats!
That's a really good way to explain detailed medical information. Not boring. And she looks super cute in her hats!
Oh Tara! You are such a sweetheart...You poor girl. When Mialee was about 6 months old she stopped sleeping and stopped nursing and I wigged out. I took her to many doctors until one finally told me that he thought it was a series of coincidences relating to personality and development...Blah blah bla... Anyway...Baby Whisperer is a good book and will probably help. You have to teach her how to sleep with love. Lots of patience and consistency! If I put Mialee in my bed one time then I am fighting her for two weeks about sleeping in her own bed. Chloe's smart...she'll get it...but you have to make your choices and stick with them and be confident about them so that she can be too! Love ya babe! I really, really, want to come see you soon.
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